“Mom, mom, mom… MOM! Can you—” sigh…
Being a wife and mother can sometimes feel overwhelming and exhausting. It’s a role that never really stops. And yet, what a blessing it is. For the past seven years, I’ve had the incredible privilege of being a stay-at-home, homeschooling mom to two—now three—beautiful little ones. While I’m so grateful for this calling, I’ll be honest: there are days that feel especially hard. There are seasons of struggle.
When I was pregnant with Evelynne a year ago, I felt the Lord stirring my heart to bring more peace and order into our home. I wanted a routine—something simple and life-giving—that would help calm the chaos and serve our family well. That’s when I discovered FlyLady, and everything began to shift.
Who or What is the FlyLady?
The FlyLady Method is a home cleaning and organization system designed to bring peace and order into your living space—one simple habit at a time. It focuses on building healthy routines, starting small with daily tasks like making the bed, doing the dishes, and clearing clutter. Over time, it gently guides you into deeper cleaning without feeling overwhelmed.
What I love most is how it encourages short, focused bursts of cleaning with built-in breaks, helping you stay productive while also practicing self-care. It’s not about perfection—it’s about progress, grace, and creating a home that nurtures your family and your soul.
The FlyLady Method is completely adaptable, making it easy to personalize based on your season of life. And if you’re just getting started, there’s even a free app with helpful checklists to keep you on track. I used it in the beginning to stay consistent until I was able to build my own rhythms and routines that worked for our family.
With a little consistency and a lot of grace, this method truly transforms not just your home—but your heart, too.
The FlyLady Method begins with one simple step: “Shine your sink.”
It may sound small, but have you ever woken up to a sink full of dishes from the night before and instantly felt that weight of dread? It’s amazing how something as ordinary as a messy sink can affect the entire tone of your morning—if you let it.
That’s why FlyLady encourages you to start by keeping your sink clean and shining before you go to bed each night. It’s not just about cleanliness—it’s about creating peace, order, and a fresh start for the day ahead.
For a few days, try it. Be intentional. Before you turn in for the night, take a few minutes to clear and shine your sink. You might be surprised at how such a small act can help reset your heart, set the tone for your home, and remind you that even in the little things, faithfulness matters.
Now, I’ve modified The FlyLady method to fit our family’s needs. That’s what’s great about things like this. You can make it fit your family’s needs.
Weekly Breakdown:
Sunday: FAMILY FUN DAY
A day to rest, reconnect, and enjoy the blessings of family life. Whether we’re taking a nature walk, enjoying a simple picnic, playing games, or working on light homestead projects together—like gathering eggs, watering the garden, or baking fresh bread—Sunday is about togetherness. It’s a time to slow down, give thanks, and create lasting memories as a family.
Monday: HOME BLESSING DAY
A day to reset and refresh our home for the week ahead. We start with prayer, asking God to fill each room with His peace and presence. It’s a time to do those small but meaningful tasks—washing the bedding, tidying up, dusting surfaces, and opening the windows to let in fresh air. As we clean, we’re not just caring for our home—we’re blessing the space where our family gathers, grows, and rests. It’s holy work, done with love and purpose.
Tuesday: OVERLOOK DAY
Today is all about stewarding the spaces that often get overlooked. We take time to clean out the car, refresh the diaper bag, and tend to the animals’ living spaces—because every corner of our lives matters. Whether it’s removing crumbs from the back seat, restocking baby essentials, or giving the chicken coop or barn a good clean, we do it with a grateful heart. These simple acts of care help create order, comfort, and peace in the everyday rhythm of family and homestead life.
Wednesday: ANTI-PROCRASTINATION DAY
Today is for tackling the things we’ve been putting off—those lingering tasks, small projects, or appointments that keep getting pushed to “tomorrow.” It’s a chance to clear mental and physical clutter, one step at a time. Whether it’s making a phone call, organizing a drawer, mending clothes, or finally starting that small homestead project, we do it with diligence and joy. Proverbs 31 reminds us that a woman of strength “looks well to the ways of her household.” So today, we move forward—not in perfection, but with purpose.
Thursday: PLAN & ORGANIZE
A day to slow down, look ahead, and bring order to the days to come. We take time to review the calendar, plan meals, make grocery lists, and prepare for upcoming tasks or events. It’s also a great time to organize a small space—like a closet, pantry, or drawer—one step at a time. Planning isn’t about control; it’s about being faithful with what God has entrusted to us. With a clear mind and a peaceful heart, we create space for our family to thrive.
Friday: ERRAND DAY
A day of preparation as we get ready to enter into Sabbath rest. Today, we run errands, finish up shopping, and prepare meals ahead of time so that Saturday can be a day of peace and worship. It’s also a time to tidy the home and prepare our hearts to welcome fellowship—whether with family, friends, or simply in the quiet presence of the Lord. With each task, we’re not just crossing things off a list—we’re making room for rest, joy, and meaningful connection.
Saturday: SHABBAT / REST DAY
A sacred pause. Today we set aside our work and lean into rest—physically, spiritually, and emotionally. It’s a day to delight in the fruit of the week’s labor, to worship, to reflect, and to be present with the Lord and with each other. Whether we’re gathered around the table, enjoying quiet moments, or fellowshipping with loved ones, we embrace the gift of Sabbath. We rest not just because we’re tired, but because God commands it and blesses it. Shabbat Shalom—may peace and rest fill your home.
What is the Weekly Home Blessing?
Once a week, usually on Mondays, I set aside time for a thorough reset of our home. I do a quick tidy and a deeper clean—stripping all the bedding to wash and refreshing the floors with a good scrub. I’ve discovered that slipping into fresh, clean sheets is such a simple but powerful way to start the week with a sense of renewal.
After the cleaning, I blow the shofar to mark the sacredness of the space, followed by prayer and reading Scripture. It’s more than just housekeeping—it’s a holy ritual that invites God’s presence, peace, and blessing over our home and family for the days ahead.
Praying & Reading Scripture
If you haven’t you should do a bible study of oil mentioned in scripture. What it means, when it’s used, etc.
Praying over and anointing our home with oil is one of the sacred rituals I cherish on Mondays. It’s a moment to invite God’s presence deeply into every corner of our space and family life.
I’m reminded of James 5:13-15:
“Is anyone among you suffering? Let them pray. Is anyone happy? Let them sing songs of praise. Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven. Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.”
With these verses in my heart, I walk through our home, reading scripture and praying over each room. I lightly anoint the doors and windows with oil, laying my hands on them as a symbol of faith and trust in Yahweh.
The oil itself holds no power—only God does. The oil is a visible sign of our surrender, faith, and hope in His protection and blessing. It’s a beautiful way to cover our home in prayer, reminding us that His presence dwells with us always.
Creating the annoiting oil
Again, the oil itself holds no power—the power belongs only to God. The oil is simply a symbol of our faith and trust in Him.
My anointing oil is a simple blend of olive oil with a few essential oils—lavender and frankincense. You can choose to skip the essential oils or add ones that bring you peace and joy.
Before I use the oil, I say a simple prayer:
“Abba Father, Most High, I give this oil to You. May it be a representation of the blood of Yeshua/Jesus, Your Son, who lived a sinless life and died for our sins and mistakes. He gave everything for us, out of His great love. The oil itself holds no power; You alone have the power to heal, mend, and make all things new. Abba, You know what the people and objects it touches need. I ask You to bless, heal, renew, and restore all that this oil touches. In Yeshua/Jesus’s name, Amen.”
Some of the verses I read and speak over our home and family. Deuteronomy 6, Ephesians 6:10-18 Armor of God, Deuteronomy 28:6 Joshua 24:15, 1 Samuel 25:6, Psalms 6, Psalms 23, Psalms 91, Proverbs 14:1, Proverbs 24:3-4, 2 Chronicles 7:15-16, Matthew 7:24-27, John 14:2, Acts 2:46, Romans 12:13, Philippians 4:7 & 1 Thessalonians 5:22.
When I’m finished going from room to room, I end up back a front/back door. I open it, demand and rebuke anything that isn’t holy in the name of God be cast from my home and shut the door.
It might seem crazy, but the peace that enters our home when I’m finished surpasses all other peace.
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“She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.
Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all. Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears Adonai is to be praised.” – Proverbs 31:25-30
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