Some days feel beautifully orchestrated—like everything is flowing in harmony. Other days? It’s more like juggling flaming swords while balancing on a tightrope. If you’ve ever wondered how to manage all the roles God has called you to—(for me) wife, mama, homeschooler, homemaker, homesteader, (fill in the blank for yourself), (and let’s not forget the endless “little things” in between)—you’re not alone. This season has taught me one thing above all: the power of being intentional. It’s not about being perfect or having it all figured out, it’s about showing up each day with purpose, leaning into grace, and trusting that God will fill in the gaps where I can’t. In this blog, I’m sharing the lessons, some Scripture, and the practical tools that are helping me walk this full life with peace and purpose—and I hope it encourages your journey, too.
Intentional Living Starts With God
“Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” – Proverbs 16:3
Being intentional isn’t about having a Pinterest-perfect life. It’s about starting each day by placing our plans in God’s hands and trusting Him to guide us. Some days will feel orderly and rhythmic, others chaotic and stretched. In both, intentionality means we keep our eyes on Him—not on our to-do list.
Advice: Start your morning with just 5 minutes of quiet. Whether it’s Scripture, prayer, or simply breathing deeply with God in mind—set the tone for the day with Him.
Personally: One small thing that’s made a big difference in my day is simply waking up about an hour before the kids. (It doesn’t happen every day, but I try.) That quiet time allows me to sit with the Lord, breathe, and find my focus before the day begins. When I don’t, and I’m woken up by the kids, it often feels like I’ve been jolted awake by chaos, and that can quickly spiral into feeling overwhelmed. Let’s be honest, no one wants to start their day already feeling behind. That extra time in the morning doesn’t make the day perfect, but it helps me step into it with intention, peace, and grace. Even just a few quiet moments can shift your whole perspective.
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Embrace the Grace in Imperfection
“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” – 2 Corinthians 12:9
Let’s be honest—you won’t get it all right. There will be days when you’re short on patience, behind on laundry, or overwhelmed by busy schedules. But God’s grace isn’t earned through perfect performance. It’s a gift that meets you right in your mess.
Advice: Stop aiming for perfection. Aim to be present. When the day unravels, pause and pray: “Lord, help me rest in Your grace, not my performance.”
Know Your Roles—But Don’t Let Them Define You
You’re a wife, a mama, (fill in the blank)—but you’re also a daughter of the King. That identity never shifts, even when all the others feel heavy.
Advice: Check your heart regularly. Ask: “Am I operating out of calling or just chasing control?” Rest in the fact that your worth isn’t measured by how well you juggle your roles, but by how deeply you abide in Christ.
Protect What Matters Most
“Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” – Psalm 90:12
Intentionality means prioritizing—and sometimes saying no. It’s learning to steward your time wisely, even when that means disappointing others to protect your family rhythm or your mental peace.
Advice: Make a weekly “Yes and No” list. Say yes to what nurtures your faith, family, and health. Say no to what only adds noise.
Personally: Outside of my faith, our family is one of my top priorities. It’s my husband Dylan—first, and then our children. That order matters, and keeping it aligned helps everything else flow better. In a season full of distractions and endless to-dos, it’s easy to let the urgent crowd out the important. But living intentionally means choosing to invest in the relationships that are irreplaceable.
Manage the Load with Practical Tools and Clear Communication
Living intentionally also means being wise with systems—not just spiritually, but practically. When you’re managing homeschool lessons, housework, work, and family needs (plus your own goals!), you can’t afford to fly blind.
Being organized isn’t about being rigid—it’s about creating peace.
“For God is not a God of disorder but of peace.” – 1 Corinthians 14:33
Advice:
- Use a planner or digital calendar to map out your week. Write down everything—even the little things.
- Set phone reminders for time-sensitive tasks like soaking herbs, co-op calls, or switching the laundry.
- Batch tasks (like filming content or planning homeschool) to save mental energy.
- Communicate with your spouse and older kids. A quick evening check-in can prevent misunderstandings and ease the load.
No system will be perfect, but having one gives you breathing room—and gives God more space to move in your daily rhythm.
Personally:
- I follow a modified Fly Lady Method to help me stay on top of the household chores and maintenance.
- We keep an up to date monthly calendar on the refrigerator. It has anything and everything on it that has to do with the month. From appointments, co-op or local community event days, bills, birthdays, torah portions, fellowship dates and more. Each topic is color coded.
- I also have alarms and alerts set up on my phone. It goes off to help keep me updated or even on task. But there’s also that snooze button for the days that just don’t fit into that schedule.
- Dylan and I do our best to communicate our need or lists with one another. This helps us to stay connected to one another within our busyness.
- Our children each have different chores, even our youngest who is 3-years old. We want them to learn responsibility and that can be done through age appropriate chores and tasks.
You’re Not Alone—Community Matters
“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” – Galatians 6:2
Whether it’s in person or online, your homeschool co-op, a group chat with mama friends, or your church family—you weren’t made to do this alone.
Advice: Be vulnerable. Share your struggles. Ask for prayer. And offer the same grace and encouragement you’re craving. You’ll most likely find that you aren’t the only one feeling the way you do or needing help. Communication after all, is the key to any relationship!
Keep Showing Up, Even When It’s Hard
Being intentional isn’t about never dropping the ball. It’s about showing up with purpose, even when you’re weary. Keep leaning on God. Keep choosing love. Keep walking in faith.
“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” – Galatians 6:9
You’ve Got THIS!
To the woman doing all the things—you’re seen. Not just by your family, or by your followers, but by your Creator. He knows your heart. He sees your sacrifice. And He is with you every step.
Take a breath. Re-center your heart. Keep your eyes on what matters most. And walk this season not with perfection—but with purpose, grace, and faith.
“May Adonai bless you and keep you. May Adonai make his face shine on you and show you his favor. May Adonai lift up his face toward you and give you peace.” – Numbers 6:24-26
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